Being equally yolked is more than money!

Dre went on a guys trip. First one in the 10 years we’ve been together. He has never traveled without me. Before leaving he backed out at least 5 times, and he kept asking if I’ll miss him. He was experiencing full blown separation anxiety, and I realized that I’ve contributed to it in some ways.

Being equally yolked is more than money. I want him to learn to be independent of me, communicate outside of me, and in the event I leave before he does I want him to be able to live and love again without me! It is so important that men understand they need to be knowledgeable about everything and refrain from always allowing the woman to handle everything. He wears the pants, but I’ve always handled the business. I’m stepping back. We got work to do!

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